Pull on their heartstrings

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rejecting an ex hey man great work thank

you for saying thank you thank you for

saying great work I have a unique story

and not necessarily about a breakup but

a reach out by an ex but it reached out

by an ex-girlfriend okay I haven't heard

that term before a reach out okay back

in July 2017 we broke up after our first

and only fights so one fight and you

break up that says something about your

relationship because fights are part of

relationships arguments are part of

relationships it was brutal where we

both hurt each other I apologized for

everything you know when someone really

hurts you the reaction is to hurt him

back sometimes and that's when it gets

nasty I apologize for everything but she

didn't and broke up with me so she's a

little bit more stubborn dare I say I

broke all forms of contact and started

working on myself and no contact at the

beginning of 2018 she started following

me again on Instagram for six months

she saw everything at the end of July

she started liking my pictures and at

At the end of August, she reached out

because I had eye surgery okay

she asked if everything was okay when I

said I was okay she continued with

more questions how have I been what have

I have been doing I even received a 3 a.m.

text joked with her about it and when

she laughed I sent the classic hey I'd

like to see you when you are free

classic okay she said yes

well I mean the smoke cleared from

whatever happened in the past you went

into no contact for some time you

went and lived your life you said six

months went by and you were doing your

thing and that's when the smoke that

like I said not to say it again when the

the smoke clears then everyone can say

do I want to revisit this relationship

that's what she did she said yes but

told me of a detail she no longer lives

in the same community, she lives two

hours away to our two drives not too bad

I told her I was also planning on moving

out soon she asked where I said Canada

he said I'm from Mexico okay

Canada's a beautiful country with nice people

Vancouver's very nice I've been to

Victoria which is outside of it well the

island off of Vancouver I should is that

part of a Coover no Victoria's the

Island off their beautiful gorgeous

place go there it took her four days to

reply she repeated this pattern the five

times she would reach out nevertheless

she would apologize and continue the

conversation the second time we talked

what's on Whats app she still had my

a number she was now sending strings of

five messages and asking a lot about me

leaving she's interested in you she's

interested in revisiting the

relationship why was why

where exactly when and if I was gone

forever

well that will puts drama on it

right this is what happens in movies

when someone's moving away so I mean

I've moved quite a few times I'm gonna

do a video on this soon not quite you

know five or six times I've made moves

and I remember two or three times there

were girls that I worked with three or

four days later and when I say girl you

know one or two times it's not like

there were ten of them you moved

to get on the phone it's like I didn't

know you were gonna move and I was like

damn she liked me I didn't even

know that I was when I was younger so

that kind of puts a deadline on getting

back together so she's it's a little bit

of pressure and she's realizing how much

she wants to get back to you probably

I answered shortly to the point at the end

of the day I suggested we Face Time

she said that was a good idea to let her make some time for the night and if not

Tuesday she would let me know if she

didn't she still contact me for

various reasons congratulating me

because of a movie, I worked on at my

the birthday you worked on a movie [ __ ] yeah

I'm nice if you live in Mexico I think

my favorite Mexican film is immoral

sparrows great movie watch that in a

class at San Francisco State a cinema

class

she didn't do that in the past she didn't

do that the past year she was asking

more questions about my everyday life

and started sharing memes many's Mani's

she even confessed that she is very nosy

I liked that you liked that she's nosy

or she liked you like that she confessed

I felt that if I let her do all the

talking then she would eventually

suggest a meet-up I mean at this point

if you want to meet up with her just

meet up with her don't play anymore

games she's interested she wants to see

you and you want to see you before

you leave I was not going to ask her out

a third time she knew my intentions all

of a sudden in between what are your

intentions in between two of our

questions she said this when I started

the college I started calling who to be

one who is now my boyfriend I walked I

just remembered that you call your best

friend the same do you still call him

that I was furious I don't understand

that I was furious but calmed myself to

answer back so she's dating her best

friend, possibly I told her that we

should not be talking that I am NOT

going to be her friend and if she still

wants to reach out it has to be on other

terms I hope that you can respect that

she apologized and said she had no idea

that not being friends was not an option

during the break-up, she tried to

friendzone me and I categorically said

no, I just stopped talking and cut her off

from social media, if you don't want to

play these she's playing games with you

I mean to me it seems like she's

interested she wants to know who you are

and what you're up to but at a certain

the point you guys are just running into

dead-ends don't waste your time and

energy period and you're thinking about

moving to another country you're gonna

forget about her pretty soon anyways

ended up by saying she was happy to know

I'm doing very well she still sees

everything keeps liking my pictures

three months after our last interaction

why do you think she did that well she

likes her pictures you know people that

are extremely active on social media

like a lot of people's pictures and it's

an addiction to going through Facebook and

Instagram and these things and just you

know like how easy is it to like your

picture it's not that big a

deal okay

I'm sorry to burst the bubble I assumed

that she thought I would be angry at her

for the break-up so why would she risk

making me even angrier for telling me

about her boyfriend, I don't think she

wants to get you angry I think she wants

to make you jealous I think by doing

that there are two reasons to do that to

hurt you or make you jealous and this

is an individual that likes a lot of

the attention that's why she spends a lot of

time on social media probably tells me

I'm wrong she made it very pretty and do

you want to be with someone like that

The next question is the fact that she's with a

new boyfriend it's one of your old

friends do you even want to associate

with someone like that, you know when you

get angry with people and you get pissed

off you're giving a little piece of your

the energy that you can put into something

else and at some point, you just got to

agree to disagree and just go you know

what [ __ ] this I don't want to talk to

this individual anymore that's it

I wish you the best she made it very

personal with the nickname thing and yes

I still call him the same also she never

met him I only talked about him to her

was it a test no it's a [ __ ] game I

don't know if it's a test she's just

playing games and if I were you

there are too many fish in the sea I don't

you say that often but this is what she

immature yes absolutely immature she is

20 well she's young 20 is you know high

level of people are immature at 20 I'm

25 and there's a big difference between

an immature 20-year-old and a mature one

and a mature 25-year-old who's moving to

a new country has his [ __ ] together and

his dealing with stuff like this I'm

living my life to the fullest and moving

on yeah stop interacting with an

an individual like this knowing that if

something happens it has to be her idea

now she has to try even harder I went

you're just playing games you're just

playing games right now and I don't even

know who's gonna win however I still

don't understand the reasoning behind

her actions what if I told you who cares

what if I told you you're spending time

on something that you shouldn't really

care too much about you're moving to a

the new country you want to work on yourself

you guys were apart for six months you

haven't even mentioned how much you

liked or cared about her you haven't

mentioned that you loved her or you were

into her, I think she's just spun a web

and you know you're hanging out on the

on the outskirts of it, she's just

playing games with you this is going

nowhere

you've already got together once you've

already been together once and it didn't

work out that time now when now when

you're rekindling things it's not

working out you're having static move on

move forward okay that's my short answer

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